A record-breaking number of women just joined congress and I couldn’t be more elated. These women are diverse in age, religion, race, ethnicity, and orientation — reflecting those they serve. In response to this historic new congress, I read a Facebook post of a woman who said she lives in a house full of boys who know women run the world. That’s a great thing! And, it leaves me wondering what role do boys and men have in the world? As an ardent feminist, what role do I want them to have? I am not certain of the answer (and certainly a collective response is needed) but I do know that I want our boys to both feel that they have a place & purpose and know how to give space to those who historically have been and consistently are denied it.
When I learned I was having a boy (or rather when the tech confirmed it, because I was certain) my first thought was: how am I going to raise a white male? During those countless gender conversations while pregnant I’d often hear “boys are easier.” And I would think, that depends on the boy’s race. I will never have to worry about my boy loosing his life because of the color of his skin. That so many mothers must live with this fear fills me with rage and an indescribable heartache. This must change.
It’s critical we have conversations about gender, race, and gender & race and that central to these conversations is how we support all of our children (girls, boys, and non-binary) in understanding their role in helping to create a more just world.
“Another world is not only possible, she is on her way. And on a quiet day, if you really listen, you can hear her breathing.” -Arundhati Roy
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